Lost On The Topic Of How To Love A Man ?
Thursday, February 18th, 2010Loneliness is a plague in this world in which we live. There are billions and billions of people on the planet, but many of these people live alone. Many of the people who don’t live alone live with extreme loneliness. Women in particular are often looking for information regarding:
a) How to make a man fall in love with me
b) How to make a man love you and you alone
c) How to love a man and all that he does
d) How to love a guy through and through
e) How to make a man love you forever and ever
Men are different “animals”. Most women realize this, right? How many women have tossed and turned late at night trying to figure men out, and how to show them that they truly care? Are gifts the best and only what that you can show that special guy that you truly do love them? In this article we will be going into this subject matter in great length. We will be exploring the various ways in which you can show him that you truly love him.
Food…
“The Way To A Man’s Heart Is Through His Stomach”. We’ve all heard this saying before right? Now we won’t go so far as to say that the only way to get a man to love you is to go through his stomach, it is true that most guys love good food, and all the work and thought that has gone into making it.
1) For starters we will begin with the first meal of the day, which is breakfast. Why not make him something truly special to get his day off on the right foot? Think he might like some heart-shaped pancakes? If he’s not into pancakes how about trimming the corners off a piece of toast to replicate the shape of a heart? Even the butter that could accompany this dish could be trimmed into a heart shape. It will go great on those pancakes or toast. Yummy!!!
2) Lunch comes next. Many men “brown bag” it to work, and this provides you with a great opportunity to show that you love him. Here’s an extra surprise: cook or make his favorite snack and add it with his “usual ole’ sandwich” for that special note saying: “I love you”.
3) The last meal of the day is the evening meal, at least for most people. Even though it’s the last meal of the day, this doesn’t mean that it has to be the least romantic. You could start things off with a dinner via candlelight. Play some romantic and soothing music in the background. That great little bottle of wine. Oh, and don’t forget to make him that special meal that he often raves about.
4) Many people eat snacks throughout the day. So many in fact that they are not very memorable. How about a romantic snack? Is there a special treat that you enjoyed when you were first dating? Perhaps an ice cream soda at the local drugstore? Nobody says that you can’t go back and do it all over again. Bring on all those romantic snacks…they mean so much…
Showing Affection
Everyone needs to know that people care about them. Men are included in this group ladies! Even those “strong and silent type” guys can get a tear in the eye when they watch a very sad or touching movie. Looking for a way to show that special guy that you love him? Why not try:
1) A hug says so, so much. When he least expects it, why not give him one. Come up from behind, put your arms around him, and give him a great big bear hug. You could whisper “I love you” into his ear. No need to overdo this mind you…keep it special.
2) Listen to him. Can’t get much more simple than that. For many women it so tempting to talk your man’s ear off when he gets him. You want to vent and get out your frustrations. For a change, let him talk and you just listen. Don’t change the subject to your day, but offer “I’m listening responses” like “I see” or “Hmmm”. He will remember your care and concern for him…
3) On the other side of the coin, there are some guys don’t like to talk at all when they arrive home from work. Remember, they’ve been battling the traffic, the clients, the boss, and “who knows” during the day, and they need time to unwind. They will probably talk your ear off once they do relax a bit, but be sure not to pepper them with questions as soon as they get home, or give him the latest version of that “Honey Do List”. Just let him unwind a bit…
4) Guys (at least quite a few of them) love a good relaxing massage. Are you gifted in giving a massage? Why not unleash this talent? Start off with the back, and run your fingers through his hair. Give him every opportunity to tell you what he likes and what he doesn’t like. What a great way to unwind and prepare for the evening…
Activities With Romance
Many men are adventurous and energetic and love to try out new things. They love to test their manliness. Here are a few activities that will show that you love that special guy:
1) You can show your man that you love him is to do something that you would not normally do. For example, perhaps you really hate football. You have made no surprise of this to the guy in your life. Why not put your distain for the sport on hold for a day or two and join him on the couch watching his favorite team? Instead of rolling your eyes and saying “Why are they so brutal” … ask him what a “first down” means. Guys love to show that they are knowledgeable about something, and will love to explain in detail to you the finer points of the game. If he’s not into football, but baseball, or basketball, or hockey, well, I’m sure you can figure out what you should ask him if you watch the sport for a few minutes…
2) Does your man have chores that he needs to do? Many guys have something that they need to do around the house on a regular basis. Let’s suppose this happens to be taking out the garbage every week. Why not surprise him by taking it out for him? You could say that since he is especially busy this week you thought that you would help him out. Be sure to indicate why…he may think you really enjoy it and you have found you have a new chore around the house.
3) Pillow fight anyone? Most of us have left pillow fights behind with our childhood…back when we used to jump up and down on the bed. Who says we need to leave all the fun behind when we grow up? Here’s a thought. One night, when you are getting ready for bed, hall off and “wallop” him! He’ll be taken by surprise, for sure…but he might get a kick out of it. Be prepared for him to hall off and “wallop” you back. Let the action begin!
Compliments Are Great
We all love compliments. We like to hear nice things about our clothes, about our hair, about our jewelry, about our kindness. Here are a few great ways in which you can compliment a guy:
1) Say nice complimentary things about your guy when you are out with others. Tell others how special he is, or how hard he works, or how much he cares. Word will eventually get back to that man of yours, and he will be thrilled that all the good aspects of his character have not gone unnoticed.
2) Is that guy of yours a fancy dresser sort of a guy? Some guys are, and some, well “not so much”. If he is a fancy dresser he will appreciate it when other people notice this fact. Take special notes of a new piece of clothing, or how he has put his style together, and let him know that you notice.
3) Is there anything that the man in your life does that you really appreciate? Perhaps a certain chore around the house? Maybe he does the dishes? Maybe he’s good at taking the baby out for a walk? Maybe he makes dinner from time to time? If there is something that he does that you really appreciate, make sure that you let him know.
4) You could always leave some little romantic notes in places that he will find them. Why not put one on the bathroom mirror for example? He will see it when he gets up in the morning. Why not put one on the steering wheel of his car? He will see it when he drives to work in the morning.
Buy Him Something
We all get gifts from time to time, but this usually is reserved for the holidays or other special occasions. Who says that we can’t give gifts at other times of the year? Gifts are a sign of great affection, and if done right, they can pack a lot of romantic “wallop”. Let us help you out. We have scoured the web and have come up with what we think are some great gift ideas. Special and unique, we think that you will enjoy giving them as much as they will enjoy receiving them. They are:
Our Way Cool Pick #1 - Is that special man in your life into experiencing the outdoors? Perhaps he likes to fish or hike or hunt or camp? I bet that you worry about him when he is away, right? You realize that he might get lost or hurt or “whatever”. What will you do then? Well here is a great gem of an item that we came across. We didn’t even know that something like this existed. The “Satellite Messenger” is a small electronic device (lightweight at a mere 8oz) that will give him the ability to track his adventures and travels into the great outdoors. This device will help keep you up-to-date on his current location and his status as well. What does all this mean? It means that you will know where he is, and if he is in serious trouble as well. How much is this piece of mind worth? This little device can call for help, so it might even save his life one day. We’re not the only ones who think this is a great gift idea. Backpacker Magazine gave it their 2008 Editor’s Choice Award. Considering what “peace of mind” this little gadget will bring you, it might be just as much a gift for you as it is for him. Check out our blog for further details and ordering information.
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Way Cool Pick #3 - Many guys love their cars. In fact, if you asked them, they will often tell you of their favorite car. They might not be able to afford one of these cars mind you, but they fancy one none-the-less. You might not be able to afford one of these cars either, but you can always get him the next best thing. This company, DieCast Car Models, have been selling exact replicas of cars online since 2001. From Fords to Ferraris, from Toyotas to Lamborghinis, from “this car” to “that car”, they seem to have them all. These are not just mere models mind you, they are MODELS. If that special guy in your life is a car lover, don’t miss the opportunity to see what this company has to offer. Check out our blog for ordering information.
The Conclusion of the Matter
We’re going to wrap up this article now. Has it been helpful? Have you been provided with enough examples of how to show that special man that you love him? If you would like more info, check out our blog. It goes into greater detail than we can possibly relay in a single article. If you would like to learn of more wonderful presents for men, or more information on those items we have mentioned above, check out www.WonderfulPresentsForMen.com. For all those UNIQUE Christmas gifts you are looking for, check out: www.ExcellentChristmasList.com.
Have fun loving that man…:)
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